Through time Ive lost alot of people and alot of things. I dont believe that there are any words that can console a person. I think the I needs time, life being 360 degrees Jah energy never really leaves. Much love and respect to you and your family. But about your dreads and the nazereth vow I man know if you cut your hair you must fulfill the vow (my opinion) much love and respect to the I.
May all wounds heal and we forward on....
 I know thy works, and tribulation, and poverty, (but thou art rich) and I know the blasphemy of them which say they are Jews, and are not, but are the synagogue of Satan.
 Fear none of those things which thou shalt suffer: behold, the devil shall cast some of you into prison, that ye may be tried; and ye shall have tribulation ten days: be thou faithful unto death, and I will give thee a crown of life.
 He that hath an ear, let him hear what the Spirit saith unto the churches; He that overcometh shall not be hurt of the second death.