"She brings me drinks. She makes plates for me. Etc. I don't have to ask."
I think you lucked out on this one. Someone taught her well. Thank the parents, exes, whoever you gotta thank.
"but did you see and give equal weight to all the things women had to go through during that same time period and all the things they did for men?"
Saw it, didn't judge it as equal difficulty. Equal necessity, sure.
"But they don't define "man" by the same standard that incels think."
Actually, they have a pretty compelling argument that it's all LMS. Looks, money, status. They are pretty retarded for thinking that only applies to female thinking, but still. They kinda did nail that part. The problem I have is the hypocrisy. Everyone knows they just want to bang 10s and are bitter about it. Who are they fooling? They want a kind, moral woman who is also fat fugly, flat broke and a social reject? Nah. They wanna bang 10s.
"Wow... I certainly don't envy you. It must be hard overthinking situations and ignoring the most obvious influential factors"
Well, yeah. "Baby" reminds me of old girlfriends, "sweet" is a form of insult, and "honey" just sounds like you're a 73 y/o lady. Generic pet names don't come off natural to me at all. Some of the northerners say "love"... like every other sentence. Just sounds sorta lame. Well, that settles it, I'm calling all women "muffins" from now on.
"No, you weren't. If you were then you would say that men should be the ones cooking for their family."
Dude, I don't care who does that. Usually the man is busy with other stuff, like making money. If they're both working, hire a maid. If neither is working, live in a dirty house. Other people's household chores are not my shit to figure out.
"I like more feminine appearance. And that's okay because there plenty of dudes who look pretty"
I didn't know this about you.
"I don't really think there's any masculinity you can infer from it. More feminine women are simply more adept at hiding their drive from men the same way that they hid their attraction until the guy made the first move."
Yes bro, some women are 10x hornier and more aggressive, it's not even close. I got pulled by a fucking grocery bagger, dude. She carried my gallon of milk out for me, and it was the only thing I bought. This is when I was still doing PUA bullshit and failing hard. I got pulled by a random chick in 8th grade, when I was a shy, insecure stoner nerd. She called ME and set up the date same evening, instant makeout, spent the night in the park, skipped school the next day. It's NOT even close. I didn't even do anything to interact with them, I was just in the right place at the right time.
"Seemed like you were speaking broadly and in general; talking about men (broadly, generally) being X and women being Y."
That's exactly what I was doing. But you keep making arguments towards individual rights. What does "broadly" have to do with the guy that likes getting femdom'd? The phrase "most men" accounts for his existence just fine. He's the outlier in "most".
I never stood against any womens rights, other than the right to not be held accountable as an adult. I say down with feminism, that doesn't mean I'm against a guy getting femdom'd if he really wants that. The whole crux of my argument is that feminism is unhealthy for MOST. But you're arguing against the position of wanting to take away the rights of the outliers, which isn't a position I hold. I wasn't telling any individual what to do, only to adjust their expectations to reality. I could've been more clear about that in my first post, but then again, people are gonna get triggered either way.
"When people use alcohol for the same reasons people don't automatically fear being murdered by that person or think that person might be a pedophile."
Drugs r' bad, 'mmmmkay? Drug addicts steal. If they can't get money to buy their shit, they'll sell your tv. They say withdrawal is like waiting for your skin to grow back. Plus, have you ever seen a tweaker on the shit? They will attack without rhyme or reason.
"Weren't you talking about how a good leader should help other people?"
Yeah, but I'm doing what a good leader does and just giving him the freedom to not be a fucking leech on my resources. Good leaders are willing to sacrifice, but sometimes call on others to sacrifice!