"intolerant of others who are different than them"
You got the intolerant bit right. I'm totally intolerant of perverse fools... and by perverse, I mean those of flesh & material that confuse the feelings of a satisfied ego with righteousness. This would be what you lot call "one love"... the pacifiers of the perverse ego.
I love people who are different than me. Different and righteous is fabulous. Different and wicked is not.
There is a difference between righteousness and self righteousness. You are self-righteous. I am righteous. As I've already said, you are totally confused by partiality. You're trying to find a mode of thought that makes you a-okay with elitist political ideas, spiritualists, youths, and... well, everybody else. One type of partiality is difficult. But stupidly, you are trying to please all the people, all the time, so your multiple-partiality shows how much of a fractured spirit you are.
Again, your continual search as "Still Looking" is the cop out of a grown man in flesh, who is still looking for rest.
I know you think that continually challenging "young" people about the fundamentals of their value is a "mature" way of "teaching" them to question themselves or something. Ye see, this is more liberal hogwash... and this is how I know I've been blessed... the types of elders & incients that have schooled me, have been the type to not have to prod and poke you with backward "challenging" questions.
By now, after all this time of still looking, as an older man the I should be able to speak to the youths in a way that you answer the questions they are asking, without them even needing to articulate it with any more fullness. You should have FOUND (by now) a simplistic and effective way to identify and soothe all juvenile tempests of the restless and searching soul. Instead you're on here looking for us to vindicate you.