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Messenger: Olivebranch
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6/15/2022 12:28:01 AM
how do you get advice without people judging you and your situation .As a judge I hate to be judged especially when no advice is given to help out my situation .
hoping a bobo shanti elder woman could connect with me .one love
Messenger: IPXninja
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6/15/2022 11:31:10 AM
seeking advice always comes with that risk but you can mitigate that risk by seeking advice from someone who has shown themselves not to be judgmental and who is more "down to earth". Choose the right judge wisely and you'll get wise advice without judgment.
tip: pick someone who at least sometimes plays devil's advocate. They tend to be less judgmental people in general, more willing to look at the reasons, not simply the actions or outcome.