Iyah Garveys Africa, I am with the I on that! Yet I King laughs when I say I want more than one "if I win the lottery!" But I don't think having children is such an expense, depending on the lifestyle, depending on the priorities in the family spending habits. Garvey I, the I have many youths? And if so, how does the I manage the costs of raising children?
Bongo Iyah, thankhs so much Empress for the well wishes and prayers, I hope to soon give a positive update on our journey to parenthood. I pray the I fulljoy motherhood in the fullest also and have just as many children as the I end up wanting! It's an individual choice and I don't believe womban should sacrifice her mental health for an ideal, if it would be too much on ones n ones, then they should not feel pressured.
I am not too clear on the specifics of the Bobo Ashanti ways, not being part of that tribe, but it may be both weeks 3 and 4 that are clean and available for sexual relations. Maybe. Not sure. Anyone who knows the Bobo ways can give a better answer please!
Funny enough if I was in the Bobo house, this method would not be a preventative measure for I because I actually ovulate on day 17 or 18 of my cycle. This just goes to show that all womban have a different cycle and they have to know their own bodies rather than basing their sexual habits, whether trying to conceieve or trying to avoid pregnancy, on a generalization or an average of female cycles.
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