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Messenger: Ark I Sent: 8/26/2008 12:55:40 AM

UPDATE December 20, 2010

I wanted to add this here because of its relevance to the Reasoning.

King and Queen can come together in peace and harmony. Before I met I Empress I asked Jah to send I a Woman that will be strong and help I in I trod. When Jah send I the Empress I asked for I gave Thanks to the Most High Jah RasTafarI Haile Selassie I.

We have been together since 1996 and married since 2004. We have never had a serious fight, we argue a little from time to time, but it is never that serious.

The first step is the most important. Ask Jah for a Man or Woman that will be good and strong for you and help you in your trod.

Next you have to be very observant when you meet them. Pay attention to what they say and do and don't let things slip by or allow yourself to be blinded. The first person that comes your way after you ask Jah may not be the right One, or they may be. That is why it is so important to observe and study and be honest with yourself so you know if they are the Right One or the wrong person.

A person doesn't have to be perfect to be the Right One, but make sure who you choose is somebody you will be happy with even if they don't get any better than they already are. The reason I say that is because if you choose a person like that, then they will likely be a person that will get better. But if you don't choose a person like that, then there is a high chance that they will stay the same or get worse.

Another thing to remember is that it would be beneficial for you and the person to have an agreement that if one of you brings up a problem about the other, then the other shouldn't bring up a counter-problem at that time. Deal with the problem at hand, and at another time (preferably on another day) the other person can bring up a problem to discuss. Otherwise, problem calls out problem that calls out problem and argument can turn into fight.

And when they speak about a problem, first think about what has been said and put yourself in their shoes, and then react, and they should do the same if you bring up a problem. A few seconds of thinking can bring a very different response and usually a better one. Also, when one of you brings up a problem, try to bring it up at the right time. In the heat of the moment, bringing up a problem will go on deaf ears and it will be useless. But if a person waits a little, when they bring up the problem the other person will be more likely to at least listen.

And unless it is absolutely necessary, the I them shouldn't bring up a problem in front of others because that will probably cause the accused embarrasment and they will likely try to defend, and it is also more likely to become a competition instead of a reasoning. Always look for usefulness, discuss problems in a manner that will fix them, instead of way that will cause more problems.

daughter of zion(not a poem)


If a man and woman are seeking to please Jah and Live in Righteousness then there is no first or last between them and there is no higher or lower. There is just righteousness and wickedness, so both should trod towards righteousness and if there is a difference of opinion between a man and woman, they should reason until they figure out which opinion is the Right choice or if the Right choice is a combination of both opinions or if both opinions are the wrong choice.

I will never accept that a woman has no say, and should just do whatever a man say. Many men out there are not good examples of Jah Livity, and all they will do is teach a woman foolishness. A woman should never trod against Jah RasTafarI, no matter if a man tell her to do this or that. Also, I sight that the men who don't consider the instruction and opinion of their wife will be weak. I will never refuse good instruction or correction, no matter who brings it to I. I don't have any desire to continue in foolishness because I am too stubborn to deal with what a woman say. Man and Woman come together as One, and Jah should be their guide and light. A woman often times will think of things that a man doesn't, and a man will often times think of things that a woman doesn't. So as One, I and I should rise and come closer to Jah with One mind.

A man and woman will always trod in weakness if they think that one person (whether man or woman) should make the decisions without the others input or even when the other has the choice to agree or disagree. When both people are free to bring forward a reasoning and the reasoning is discussed it will always lead to more strength, provided that they actually reason instead of just debate or argue. This way of trodding will allow both people to use their wisdom and knowledge to the best of their ability and will encourage both to think more and bring forward guidance from Jah.

I don't feel that I empress is in control of things and she also doesn't feel that I am in control of things. Both of us propose good and bad decisions and through reasoning we realize the difference between the good and bad.

The trod of I empress and I can be summed up in the vows we made to eachother at our Marriage. I have posted them before, but I will post it again because I see it as the way for a Man and Woman to trod towards Jah.

Our Love will always grow throughout all time
We will always be One, Love without end
I ask God for Guidance to lead us in His Way
So that we Live as we should, bringing strength to each other
I will always think of you when making choices in Life
You are with me in all things. We walk side by side
I Live to raise you higher and I know you do the same
Let us rise in Godís Light, the Creator of all
By the Word of God, we are made One

Here is another related Reasoning.

Cycle of argument

Ark I

Itinual Praises unto Jah RasTafarI Haile Selassie I Menen I

Messenger: emaye_to_2 Sent: 8/26/2008 4:45:01 PM

Blessings Ras ArkI. Give thanks for these beautiful words of wisdom. This reasoning couldn't have come at a better time for my kingman and me.. seriously. You love to help your brothers and sisters rise together, more strength! It is not always easy work to trod together in unity thru this world. I give thanks for the reminder to reason frequently and respectfully with each other (before it turns to arguments), and pray together for Jah guidance.
Your vows are a poem of perfect love and intention.

Messenger: Jah Bird Sent: 8/26/2008 5:03:26 PM

example to many.
Jah Guidance

Messenger: Ras KebreAB Sent: 8/26/2008 6:48:09 PM

Give thanks for the reasoning Ark I, and No worries about having posted parts of this before. i can never tire of reading such upful things,and those who never saw it before might benefit greatly from your example.

Blessed Love

Messenger: Ras Sistren Khamyl Sent: 8/27/2008 11:54:30 AM

Much RASpeckt and thanks to Ark I for sharing wise words of such a sacred nature.


Messenger: marle g Sent: 8/28/2008 8:41:44 AM


Messenger: Ark I Sent: 8/28/2008 9:27:04 PM

marle g,

Much of what I would tell you has already been written in the forum by I and others.

Read and Reason and you will learn.

Ark I

Itinual Praises unto Jah RasTafarI Haile Selassie I Menen I

Messenger: Yaa Asantewa Sent: 4/18/2009 1:28:30 PM

well i never...

Messenger: Yaa Asantewa Sent: 4/18/2009 2:40:51 PM

regarding BoboShanty...

I would never have to hear ur type of madness from Such.

Messenger: Yaa Asantewa Sent: 4/18/2009 6:37:20 PM

talk to the hand. i don't know you.

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